think this can be buffed out?

[Walts_restoration]

Road was wet, my buddy was infront of me, slammed his brakes and i slammed mine, only difference was his held mine didnt, slid into his backend and took out his bumper and tailgate, maybe bent his frame, and did this to my truck, i might be able to get away with a front clip and bumper, i was hoping to not bring insurance into this, my dad can straighten his frame and body and ill get him a new bumper and tailgate, my buddy could paint the whole truck for him (has some other dings and scratches from offroading) but his dad says he has to report to insurance company.