Power Window Help!

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So i have a 85 square im working on and the power window motor connector is giving me problems. Any ideas how i can fix this? I tried a different connector from a junkyard and no cigar. Seems lime that there connector is sooo far forward that its hitting in inside the door.. i could swear on YouTube a guy puts his into the door and the wire conne tor seems to face the rear of the door but that can't happen and a parts store guy told me there's no left or rights. Thanks in advance for any ideas. Id post a pic of the connector but i guess you need a milenial era camera to take pics that small because pics are always too big to load on this site.