Help!

[toddtheodd]

HELP!
Easy (easy my a$$!!! ) sway bar install has become nightmare.
I have succeeding in taking the head off of the bottom of the rivet but cannot get rivet out of hole.
I have tried;
drilling, hammering, and even jumping up and down on bumper while a car jack held a screwdriver up to the rivet. All I have succeeded in doing is shifting the crossmember so that I can now not get to the rivet . And the worse part is that the top of the rivet has not come out one bit. I am having better luck getting my woman to agree to an orgy (will never happen she assures me) than I am of getting this rivet out.
And this is just the first one. I still have the other side.
This d*mn thing has me more aggrivated than I have ever been in my life, and I have been pretty aggrivated before.

Help.
Either tell me what to do........ or come over here and help me. I don't have much money or else I would've paid the shop the $80 to remove the rivets for me (seems like that may have been the better way to go after all )

Todd